Thursday Thoughts

Today I'm linking up with Jennifer again for Thursday Thoughts. I guess I really have one thought/rant but here goes:

For a while now I've been trying to write a post about motherhood about how hard it is. Every few days I go back and reread and change it depending on my mood. This morning I had an experience that allowed me to finish it.

My son and I went to the grocery store to get a few things I need for this afternoon. As we went down the baby aisle (might as well get some more puffs while I'm there), I see two moms in the aisle having a conversation. When I get closer I can hear what they are talking about. These two women were talking horribly about another mother's decision to start giving her son formula at night! This really bothered me and got me to wondering why more mom's can't be supportive of each other. I chose to breast fed my son, not because I felt it makes me superior than formula feeding mothers but because it was the right choice for us. If formula is the right choice for you and your baby then that's what you should do. I was a formula fed baby and I turned out just fine in my opinion. Breast feeding is hard and takes a lot of time. If I had gone back to work I don't know if I would have been able to stick with it. It is definitely not the right choice for everyone. I would never talk bad about someone who made a different decision.  The same thing plays out on a mommy message board I'm apart of with various topics. I see mom's all the time giving others a hard time about their choices concerning food, sleep, diapering, ect. I give my son some of our food, I make some of his food, and I buy some of his food. It really depends on what we're/he's eating. I hate green beans but that doesn't mean he shouldn't have them. So I buy the little Gerber packages of them. When we travel, it is so much easier. This is horrible according to certain moms and just fine according to others. It leads to judgement on both sides. Again, we are all trying to do what is best for our baby and us in our current situation. I use disposable diapers because that is what works best for us. If you are willing to do cloth diapers, good for you. You are doing a great thing for the environment but it is not right for all of us. It is not right for many people for various reasons and should not be a reason for you to put another mom down. The endless debates over cry it out vs not seem to come up all the time. I can't listen to my little guy cry too much so cry it out is not right for me. Luckily, he sleeps pretty well so we didn't have to deal with that. For other people it is the right decision. We all are better parents on a good nights sleep. Who am I to judge anyone for how they get there??

I guess my point is that we all are just trying to do what's best for our children in our own unique situation. We, mothers, should support each other without judgement as best as we can. Motherhood is hard. Babies don't come with a manual and none of us are the supermoms Pinterest and other social media try to make us. It is just not possible. One of the reasons I started my blog was to connect with other mothers and get advice/support. There are a lot of those people out there and I am grateful. For those who aren't, consider how much better it would be if we all gave it a try?

8 months old!

This past Sunday my little guy turned 8 months old. I can't believe it! It really does seem like yesterday I was bringing him home from the hospital. He was really hamming it up during his photo shoot.
 

 

 

• Weight: 21-22 lbs (We need a new scale)
• Height: 29 inches
• Clothes: 9 and 12 months. Most shirts/onesies are 9 months; most pants are 12 months. He's a tall fellow!
• Two teeth are currently all the way in. Two more are about half way in. Two more are just barely visible under the surface. Soon he's going to have a whole mouth full!
• Favorite things: all the usual toys--Sophie, Rattle Ball, blocks, the jumper, teethers and new favorite his dad's toy airplane

•  He is eating every type of food we try. Favorites are still squash, sweet potatoes, carrots and apples. This month he's also really into pears and bananas!
•  Sleeping--going great!! He is sleeping 11-12 hours at night. We still have to nurse to sleep for his 2 naps but night time sleep is great! Hopefully, nap time will soon be fixed!
• He has started trying to wave to people. It is so cute!

 

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So What! Wednesday

This week I'm saying So What if:

• I took a little blog vacation.
• I didn't get the job I applied for even though I thought it was the perfect job for me. Guess it means I'm meant to be at home with my little guy. Although, "we hired someone with more experience" isn't something I can change or work on for next time.
• Our Easter plans are still uncertain. My dad and step mom were supposed to come here but now she has a new job and may have to work. So we might drive 5 hours to B's parent's house but I can't pack because I don't know! AHHHH! It's driving me crazy!
• I am so far behind on my trash TV shows. I don't think I've seen more than only 1 episode of Teen Mom this season.
• I seriously considered eating roasted chicken for breakfast this morning! I made a roasted chicken last night and it was the best one I've ever made. I seriously looked at it for 5 minutes this morning before settling on mini-wheats.
• (Speaking of breakfast) I can't start my morning without orange juice. I mean I'm addicted to it like others are to coffee.
• I'm crazy excited to watch my plants come back up from last year. I check on my hydrangeas almost daily to make sure they still have new leaves. I am literally stalking the plants in my backyard. I am soooo ready for spring!

March Madness

Well I filled out a bracket for March Madness. I have never done this before. I've always watched games and enjoy the tournament but never filled out the bracket. Naturally, I'm just not that competitive; however, this bracket has really made me want to win. I entered into Ramblings of a Suburban Mom's March Madness contest. It would be nice to win . She is giving away a prize that but that's not my main goal. I just realized I don't even know what the prize is!! What I really want to do is to beat my husband. I don't know why I'm want to beat him so bad but I think it's because he is super competitive especially where sports are concerned. He knows all about the teams and I've never heard of some of them. I have no idea where a lot of them are even from. I basically guessed my way through my picks. I still think it would be great the be able to beat him. The bragging rights would be crazy. I think he would be impressed if I just came close to his score. I know it's a long shot. I don't even know how it's scored. As of today, he has gotten all his picks right and I've missed a couple. Hopefully, things will start getting better for me! Everyone cheer for Louisville to win because I picked them and my husband picked Georgetown (I think)!

Cooking with Pinterest

First off I signed up for Bloglovin like everyone else it seems. I am sad that google reader is leaving. I loved how easy it was. I will continue to use it until July!


Moving on...

Earlier this week I made Crock pot French Dip Sandwiches. This was actually the second time I've made this recipe. I did make a few changes and overall we liked it better than the first time, which was also good by the way!

What you'll need (original recipe):

2-3 lb oven roast

2 cans beef broth (about 4 cups)
2 pkgs Lipton Onion Soup Mix    ** see note**
Sub Rolls
provolone cheese slices

Directions:

Put oven roast in crock pot. Add beef broth and soup mix. Cook on low 7-8 hours. Shred roast with a fork, and return shredded beef to crock pot for a few more minutes. Slice open bread, and place a good amount of beef on one side, top beef with cheese slices. Broil open sandwich in oven for a few minutes, until the cheese gets melted and bubbly. Remove from oven, and serve with a ladle of au-jus left in crock pot.

Notes:
The above is the original recipe. Here's what I changed and why. First of all, 2 packs of onion soup mix made it really salty to me so I used one the second time I made it. Next, I chopped a small onion and added it directly to the crockpot. I also added some minced garlic, some dried italian seasoning, and a couple dashes of worcheshire sauce. All of these seemed to give it really good flavor and like I said before the juice wasn't crazy salty like it was before. My husband really likes this and so did a friend of ours how was over the day we had the leftovers. Any  recipe that tastes better or as good on leftover day is pretty good in my book!

Thursday Thoughts

Today I'm linking up with Jennifer for Thursday Thoughts. Here's what's on my mind today!

• Yesterday I made brownies (after watching Food Network). I had to cut them all into squares and plate them before my husband got home. Why? I didn't want him to know I ate 3 of them after they were done! So couldn't leave them in the pan I baked them in. Also, I definitely did not enter those delicious bites into my My Fitness Pal app. So it was not correct about me having 200 calories left for the day!
• I wonder why our Congressmen/women and our Senators still get paid when a lot of people, my husband included, are getting their pay cut because the government can't get their act together and pass a budget. This does not seem fair to me at all. If the rest of us don't do our jobs, we don't get paid so why should they.
• I got my DVD in the mail yesterday from Netflix. It is Wreck It Ralph. I am so excited!! I don't know why I really want to see it but I can't wait to watch it. I was a little sad I couldn't watch it last night after the baby went to bed but we had company so I didn't want to be rude and watch TV instead of hanging out. Tonight--Wreck it Ralph!
• The quest for a sippy cup my son will actually drink from continues. Sometimes I feel like we are trying to break a world record for how many cups we can have at one time. This is ridiculous. There should be some sort of try it out before you buy it program for these things. I have bought like 8 on recommendations of people who say their child wouldn't drink from any cup but loved this random one. Not my little guy. Any more recommendations?? Seriously, we will try any cup at this point.

 

So What Wednesday

 
It's Wednesday again so that means I'm linking up with Shannon over at Life after I Dew for So What! Wednesday. Here's what I'm saying So What to this week:

• So what if my living room looks like a toy store exploded in it. The baby needs A LOT of toys to play with...apparently.
• I told myself I was going to vacuum and mop the floors while the baby napped. He is currently asleep while I'm typing this.
• I am sad that I finished Gone Girl last week. It was awesome! I've picked up a couple of other books I thought about reading in the past couple of days but I don't feel like either are going to be as good so I just put them back down.
• The weather is driving me crazy. Last weekend it was near 80 here; tomorrow snow is in the forecast.
• I watched Dancing with the stars for the first time ever this week! I know I'm way behind but it was pretty good. I'll probably watch it again. Although I do feel like the Bachelor is seriously trying to drag out his 15 minutes of reality show fame!
• I have over 800 photos on my iPhone!
• I filled out an NCAA basketball bracket for the first time ever! I secretly want it to do better than my husband's bracket since I don't follow college basketball and he does! Go Louisville!
• I still haven't seen Les Miserables but I really want to...come on netflix.
• Speaking of netflix, when is Pretty Little Liars season 3 going to show up on there?? It seems to take a long time for some shows. Others are available the week after they wrap--of course these are not the shows I want to watch.

That's all I've got for this week!